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As widely featured on tonight’s news, maiden member for Goulburn Pru Goward considers politics a sexist world. Well, newsflash, she has a point. But then I saw this:

“I have never worked in any profession as male-dominated or as ruthlessly sexist as this,” she said. “I was quite shocked by it.”

While her previous jobs had been “tough”, nothing had prepared her for this new challenge.

“Now I’m 54, I’m not cute anymore … I’m reasonably toughened and I thought I was ready for anything.

“Politics and particularly that parliament is particularly male-dominated and extraordinarily chauvinistic, in a very primitive physical way that I didn’t expect people to still behave.”

Let’s think about this…

Consider for just one moment that Goward, who was sex discrimination commissioner for a number of years, and whose job it was to promote gender equality a) didn’t think that men “still behaved” in a chauvinistic, primitive way; b)had never in fact experienced such an environment, and was shocked by it; c)thought that being older and no longer ‘cute’ would protect her somewhat from sex discrimination, despite also being the age discrimination commissioner since the inception of the role.

There are some problems here, and I would think that most of them were problems for HREOC and for the women of Australia. I also wondered, like the wonderful Meredith Burgmann who featured heavily on tonight’s news, where the hell Goward had been for the past thirty years.

According to her Saxton Speakers bio, Goward has worked as a journalist, media consultant, economics tutor and journalism lecturer. White collar, highly paid ivory tower industries, where women are paid equally to men, actively recruited under affirmative action and EEO policies, supported by inbuilt structures to speak up should something go wrong, given a voice and a process to slap and rap errant dudes with attitude problems over their wrists and knuckles and whatever else they’re waving about with gay abandon.

The biggest problem for women in these positions is the glass ceiling. I know, because I work in a similar industry. The problems that women in these positions encounter are not systematic put-downs in the workplace, unequal job and pay structures, sexual harrassment and name calling, physical intimidation and bullying. If any of these problems occur, the Pru Gowards and arleeshars of the world can mount a court case and ride to victory like Boadiccea. Ain’t no mountain high enough to keep me from prosecuting the boss who tries to fumble his privates in my face.

As such, the idea of sex discrimination comes to produce an ingrained response of righteousness - men behaving badly ‘get caught’ and punished, and the woman is sympathised with for her terrible experience. Which is a fairly ideal system, let’s face it.

The real problem begins when women in these positions fail to look beyond their own worlds and see that this is not the norm, that for most women sex discrimination is a subtle and daily working experience, and that when it becomes less subtle, you just have to grin and bear it or else lose the only job you can get that gives you time off on wednesdays to go pick the kids up early, or lose the pay rise, or lose the respect of your co-workers for ‘making a fuss’ about what is normal and, some people still believe, natural.

One of the most formative experiences of my professional life was volunteering for a women’s industrial relations advice service during my honours year at university. The people who called that service were at the last stop. They were being sexually harasssed and assaulted in the workplace. They feared to speak up because, in a small country town, they would not get another job if they lost their current position after accusing their boss of discrimination and harassment. They had lost their job because they were pregnant, but couldn’t prove it. They lived with daily teasing from their coworkers that they thought might be sexual harassment but couldn’t be sure. Things like that, and the sort of things that I would think would be on the daily radar of the sex discrimination commissioner.

But apparently, either they just weren’t up there for Pru, or else she never thought it could happen to her. She didn’t think that people ‘still’ behaved like that. And when someone like that is put in position of advocacy for the vulnerable, that is a problem.